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Keep them at home

Coalition of Christian and pro-family groups urge parents to take a stand against pro-homosexual Day of Silence events at local schools


Organizers of the annual “Day of Silence” have dedicated this year’s event to Lawrence King, a 15-year old student whom a classmate shot and killed at E.O. Green Junior High in Oxnard, allegedly for King’s homosexuality and cross-dressing. At the same time, a nationwide coalition of Christian and pro-family groups is urging parents to keep their children home from schools participating in the Day Silence, this year to be held on April 25 (though some schools may have other dates for the event.)

Promoted by the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Network (GLSEN), the Day of Silence is an event in which students in middle and high schools and colleges do not speak for all or part of a school day. Participants are provided with “speaking cards,” which read: “Please understand my reasons for not speaking today. I am participating in the Day of Silence … a national youth movement bringing attention to the silence faced by lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people and their allies. My deliberate silence echoes that silence, which is caused by anti-LGBT name-calling, bullying and harassment.” This year’s speaking card mentions Lawrence King, “who was killed in school because of his sexual orientation and gender expression.”

GLSEN says its purpose in the Day of Silence and other activities it sponsors is to ensure safe schools for all students. It “envisions a world in which every child learns to respect and accept all people, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity/expression.” A 2005 National School Climate Survey sponsored by the group claims that “4 out of 5 LGBT students report verbal, sexual or physical harassment at school and more than 30% report missing at least a day of school in the past month out of fear for their personal safety.”

But GLSEN’s goals go beyond merely protecting students from harassment. Its public policy platform, for instance, enunciates a right of students “to learn in classrooms that nurture diversity,” encouraging “schools to allow students in all grade levels access to curricula, trainings, texts and materials in all areas including but not limited to, history, literature, family life, sexuality and health education, that are relevant, comprehensive, age-appropriate, medically-accurate and inclusive of sexual orientation and gender identity/expression.” GLSEN wants to open all school activities (for instance, dances) to same-sex couples and calls on “public policy makers and school officials to adopt and enforce practices that recognize and support diverse families.”

To counteract the Day of Silence, the Christian, pro-family coalition is urging parents to learn if their schools will be holding the event, and when, and to keep their children home on that day. The coalition urges parents to “inform the school of your intention to keep your children home on that date and explain why” and “explain to your children why you’re taking a stand: Homosexual behavior is not an innate identity; it is sinful and unnatural. No school should advance a physically, emotionally and spiritually destructive sexual lifestyle to students.”

Coalition members include Abiding Truth Ministries, American Family Association, Americans for Truth, Concerned Women for America, Exodus Mandate, Illinois Family Institute, Indiana Voice for the Family, Liberty Counsel, Mass Resistance, Mission America, Parents’ Rights Coalition, Stephen Bennett Ministries, and Watchmen on the Walls.


READER COMMENTS

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 4:29 AM By John
If I were a high school student, I would hand out T-shirts to be worn that day reading "Its NOT ok to be gay", perhaps with a biblical verse below, to all students who are interested in maintaining traditional family values, which should be the vast majority. Christian silence, in this case, is endorsement.

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 4:36 AM By Veronica
The Day of Silence is intended to protest school violence, not to promote a "lifestyle" or indoctrinate any manner of sexuality. Should we keep children out of all dialog about school violence? Ask Lawrence King.

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 5:27 AM By Fr. M.P.
What would happen if speaking cards were provided saying something like this: "I follow Divine and natural law, which shows that homosexual behavior is disordered, wrong, and spreads incurable diseases. I must be silent because certain people want the laws to force my silence and remove my freedom of speech."

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 6:42 AM By Peter
"Homosexual behavior is not an innate identity; it is sinful and unnatural. No school should advance a physically, emotionally and spiritually destructive sexual lifestyle to students.” Nothing quite as rewarding as bearing false witness . . .

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 6:46 AM By Canisius
Smash the GLSEN and LGBT thought police mafia

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 8:27 AM By Zoe Brain
I note that every single one of the mentioned groups have not expressed more than the mildest concern about Larry King's execution-style slaying. Some have even said "the wages of Sin is Death", meaning, in plain terms, "he had it coming to him", though they are too hypocritical to say that overtly.// Except for Watchmen on the Walls, who at least don't disguise their opinions. // I would feel better about the situation if just one of the aforementioned groups gave equal time to the proposition that killing gay kids is at least as grave a sin as homosexuality. Just one. And not that it's worse, just that it's equal. But none have, and many have just ignored the situation completely. Silence implies consent, as they say themselves.

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 9:11 AM By Bruce T.
Or parents might give their kids a sign saying, "Please understand my reasons for not speaking today. I AM WITNESSING TO THE SILENT SCREAMS OF MILLIONS OF BABIES MURDERED BY LEGALIZED ABORTION!" Use this day of silence for free speech!

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 9:49 AM By M.R.
Oh, Bruce T, you are really on to something good with your remarks. I absolutely love it! Free speech in the public schools, what a marvelous concept that needs to become a reality! Thank, Bruce!

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 10:03 AM By Edward
What's most disgusting of all is how silent the Vatican leadership is when it comes to things like this. These recent popes NEVER defend Catholic doctrine, or fight for truth -- they just want to worship with other religions, fly around the world to make friends with non-Catholics, and cover up homosexuals in their hierarchy (usually by promoting them). So different from the popes of the past. Benedict XVI might be in America, but I don't see him fighting against all the vile perversity in this country, taking a stand against the homo lobby and our anti-Christian government and media, or defending Catholic Truth at all. This is why I've adopted the Sedevacantist position when it comes to the hierarchy.

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 10:04 AM By Veronica
This is the functional equivalent of a parent walking through a store, and covering their child's eyes when they pass a couple, kissing. How long will we keep our children blind to the realities of the society they'll eventually be adults in?

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 10:27 AM By Betty
Great idea, Bruce T. By the way, silence does not necessarily mean consent, as some people seem to think. Silence can mean , " I don't agree with your propositions but what the heck, silence might not be such a bad thing. In fact I think there should be more of it. At least that way we don't have to listen to people telling us that homosexuality id s natural inclination for some people etc. etc. etc.

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 10:37 AM By Peter
Or how about "I follow what I consider to be Divine and natural law, and since the fundamental tenets of my faith are inherently prejudiced, and since hate is an integral component of my faith, I must be silent lest I am perceived to be a bigot."

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 11:00 AM By Brian S.
Zoe, perhaps you would appreciate reading Camila Paglia's comments on the Lawrence King tragedy. Perhaps you can judge the comments from her, a very secular lesbian, on their own merits, without the baggage that may come with similar comments from Trad Catholics, and perhaps you can refrain from accusing her of excusing murder.****"... the school itself was clearly negligent in permitting a troubled young man to strike dangerously theatrical attitudes on school property and …classroom….wearing pink lipstick and purple eye shadow and openly flirting with other boys. Were his teachers in a p.c. coma? Were they so drunk with utopian political rhetoric about "tolerance" that they were blind to a 15-year-old's psychological vertigo? … He needed protection against his own fantasies....it is perfectly reasonable to require orderly norms of dress and behavior in a public space like junior high school."

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 11:05 AM By Brian S.
Veronica, the energy I would expend covering my children's eyes from a kissing couple would be proportional to the energy with which the couple were kissing. I don't remember ever doing it, but maybe I don't go to the right stores. But is your last question meant to be rhetorical? You should know that it isn't. Are there no realities - maybe rape, murder, torture, mixed martial arts fighting, or republican party gatherings - from which you believe children should be shielded?

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 11:21 AM By Thomas
Peter, How do you know that a homosexual orientation is "not innate", please answer one question, AT WHAT AGE DID YOU RECEIVE THE GIFT OF INFUSED KNOWLEDGE?

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 11:33 AM By Maria C
Here is my national day of speaking the truth: Homosexuality is a sin and I will not participate in such a day where people are having a day of silence for evil. People lets have a day of prayer for people with such lifestyles, lets pray for their conversion and salvation as well for our own. and to Veronica's comments, I don't agree with your comments, they sadden me, perhaps you don't understand the harm that brings to one's soul. As Christians we can not condone nor participate in these secular ways. We are warned of the curcumstances.

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 11:48 AM By Thomas
Edward, If you don't care for these "recent popes" you should join the episcopal club!!

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 12:35 PM By Chuck Anziulewicz
Actually the people I feel the most sorry for are those kids who are Gay or Lesbian themselves, who live in mortal terror of their Bible-thumping parents finding out, and who wouldn't dream of speaking up while their parents keep them out of school that day.

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 1:37 PM By Dan
"This is why I've adopted the Sedevacantist position when it comes to the hierarchy. " Edward, I agree with you that there is much corruption in the hierarchy. But how a pope manages such a situation is harder to evaluate from our end of things. JP II was as orthodox as they come -- how many listened to him? The disconnect between worthy pontiffs and unworthy bishops as existed from the beginning. In fact the disconnect between worthy saints and their followers has always existed as well. Look at the depression St. Francis had over the way his order conducted business in the years before he died. Even though Thomas and I look at things quite differently, I urge you with him to abandon the sedevacantist position. Benedict XVI cannot wave his hand and have the Fr. Privetts of the world stop fostering dissent in the church. Let us give the Holy Spirit time to work through these pontiffs. Change is always slow.

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 1:39 PM By Michelle
So if you are not in agreement with the message that it is not ok to harrass and kill people, does that mean you are for killing people just because you don't like their own belief? That does not sound very Christian to me. I thought murder was a sin? I must have gone to the wrong church. You suggest keeping your child home from school because of the DOS. That is one way to make sure they are silent at school. Just out of curiosity...does keeping a child at home help them learn better than sitting quietly in a classrom while a teacher teaches?

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 3:11 PM By garvan
Thomas: How sad that this has to be repeated ad infinitum: There is NO scientific evidence whatsoever that homosexuality has a physiological basis in humans. Period.

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 3:58 PM By Joe
Maybe Jesus told us to love our neighbors, but it'll be a cold day in hell before I teach my kids to do the same!

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 4:08 PM By John L. Sillasen
If homosexuality were innate, ie a physical disorder, then why would God selectively kill all the inhabitants of Sodom and then never call for punishment for other physical disorders such as blindness or old age? But the homosexual crowd tends to also advocate abortion ... guess they figure that babies are disordered and must be eliminated.

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 5:51 PM By Mara
I've been ex-gay for 25 years. I lived in San Francisco in the 80's. I joined the Catholic Church in '95 after leaving this destructive lifestyle. Young people are being led astray by the secular society. I would do anything to take back what I did during the years I lived the gay lifestyle. If only I'd known my Christian faith better than I did back then. There is no way to measure the harm this does to one's soul. The homosexual disorder never should have been removed from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. I wish the Christians in my life had had the courage to tell me the truth about the grave sin of homosexuality. There are thousands of people like me. No one ever hears about us, because we don't fit into the politically correct message of the aggressive gay activist movement. IT IS EVIL. Young people are killing themselves. They are confused. They are hurt. Someone has to have the courage to try to stop the madness. My Catholic school participates in this Day of Silence!

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 6:26 PM By Zoe Brain
What about Gomorrah? They were killed too. Was there a special offer, two cities for the price of one? // You're aware of the exegesis that it was the sin of inhospitality that was being punished, not sexual practices? As for selectivity, are you saying that no innocent children existed in either place? // John, your strawman arguments about "disordered babies" are inappropriate, when you consider the recent evidence that Catholic priests are pederasts, and "the Christian crowd" believes in polygamy with forced marriages to minors. In fact, only a few Catholic priests have fallen, and only a small subset of christian cultists are polygamous pederasts. But don't go around making such ridiculous generalisations, or people will apply them to you too.

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 9:54 PM By Innocent III
Go one step further. Keep them home permanently. Make the sacrifice and homeschool your kids, so you can be sure they aren't being exposed to the many forms of rot in public (and yes, many Catholic) schools.

Posted Thursday, April 17, 2008 11:13 PM By the other Mike
This so called Day of Silence is a total joke!! Since when are homosexuals silent about anything? They promote their homosexual death culture on primetime TV, in all the major movies, in the major newspapers, and in all grades of public school, each and every day! They brag about owning the California State Legislature! I wish the "Day of Silence" was the one day of the year they would just shut the heck up.

Posted Friday, April 18, 2008 6:33 AM By Peter
Thomas: In the 7th grade, at the time when I started to be attracted to boys and my male friends were starting to be attracted to girls; and then offically at the age of 19, when I learned that the term "homosexual" was used to define my sexual orientation. "Infused" enough for you?

Posted Friday, April 18, 2008 7:14 AM By John L. Sillasen
Zoe, you're quoting the devil's exegesis.

Posted Friday, April 18, 2008 7:51 AM By russ hemphill
High School (and even middle school) can be a harrowing experience for young people carrying uncertain (or certain) thoughts concerning their gender identity and sexual orientation. Taunting, teasing, social ostracization and no place to turn are the ongoing issues young people face in the social world of middle and high school and it is elevated even further for youth faced with questions about sexual orientation and gender identity-- that 'very few want to talk about.' Gay Straight Associations and its members, clergy, counselors and even understanding mentors can help and are often identified during the Day of Silence. Students face harassment and bullying every day the full school year. Having one day where a young person can feel somewhat safe and possibly find a supportive friend, ally or even glimmer of hope isn't too much to ask.

Posted Friday, April 18, 2008 12:27 PM By John L. Sillasen
Peter, here is the bottom line for you to use in figuring out your condition: Homosexualness is the consequence of sin. An interesting note is that a sin can have consequences passed down many generations. You may yourself have done nothing to kick start your homosexual attractions. But somebody did ... could have been a generation back or it could have been several. It could have been something done to you which you do not remember. Whatever the case, you are stuck with it. So, do you want to continue the consequences or do you want to escape them? The Church has the resources for you to escape it.

Posted Friday, April 18, 2008 12:29 PM By John L. Sillasen
Zoe, I was testing you to see if you have the capacity to discern what is ridiculous. You passed. Now carry your discernment skills further and do a self-examination.

Posted Friday, April 18, 2008 1:02 PM By Fr. M.P.
Peter, try saying one Hail Mary a day and see what happens. Zoe, so the exegesis on the alleged inhospitality was about what exactly? Was it inhospitable that Lot offered his virgin daughters but refused to let the homosexuals molest the good looking Angels? Notice how the Angels made the homosexuals blind, which is symbolic of the state of their souls.

Posted Friday, April 18, 2008 4:12 PM By Maria C
God blesss you Mara. I apprecaite your post, sharing what you have went through is a powerful tool to break the bondages of lies that the homosexual agenda is teaching.

Posted Friday, April 18, 2008 7:59 PM By Carl
Jesus, please return to us and protect us from your modern followers who use their religion to promote intolerance, fear, ignorance, and their own vain pride.

Posted Saturday, April 19, 2008 9:10 AM By Elizabeth
Jesus, please return to us and protect us from your pseudo-followers who use their religion to promote intolerance, fear, ignorance, and their own vain pride. Many Catholics are in fact christians... but, by looking at the above posts, it is obvious that precious few are to be found here... Proud to be a follower of christ. And the second of these, is love one another.

Posted Saturday, April 19, 2008 1:30 PM By Deirdre
How about the young lady in the Columbine shooting. She was asked to deny Christ and she did not, she was shot and killed. We do not have a day of silence commemorating her death, or for that matter the many many deaths that still occur all over the world to people who believe in Christ. Schools need to get out of the business of indoctrination and start focusing on Reading, Writing, Math, in short, start educatiing.

Posted Sunday, April 20, 2008 6:51 AM By Zoe Brain
Deidre, please give me more details of the tragedy at Columbine - I wasn't aware of any martyrdoms therein. And yes, a day of silence for her would be entirely appropriate, and have my full support.

Posted Sunday, April 20, 2008 6:59 AM By Zoe Brain
From TIME: // Among the many stories about Rachel was one that first appeared in a local Christian newspaper, saying she had been asked if she believed in God and had answered yes before Eric Harris shot her. The account was credited to Richard Castaldo, the now paralyzed boy who was having lunch with Rachel when she died. The Scott family believes this account. But in an interview with TIME last week, Castaldo denied telling the story. Darrell, who agrees that Castaldo would be the only plausible source of such a story, says, "I'm surprised. If he said that, then either it didn't happen or he changed his story."// I'll leave it up to the appropriate Vatican authorities to determine her status as a martyr. // 8 GLBT people were slain in the first 2 months of 2008 in the USA for being GLBT (and many more who we can't prove were slain for being so, no matter what is suspected). 3 were minors.

Posted Sunday, April 20, 2008 1:42 PM By John L. Sillasen
The Beattitudes say "those persecuted for the sake of righteousness", which de facto excludes those advocating homosexuality.

Posted Sunday, April 20, 2008 6:02 PM By RR
Zoe: In order to be a martyr in the Church you have to be killed for Christ and the True Church. As sad as it is for the gay victims, they did not die because of Christ or His True Church, therefore, they are not martyrs.

Posted Sunday, April 20, 2008 9:37 PM By Zoe Brain
RR - I agree, I was referring to Rachel, who by all accounts was an extraordinary girl, and her callous slaying a great loss to the world. I'm not up on the exact theological status of martyrs, whether they have to belong to the correct Christian Denomination or not. Remember, many martyrs have never been exposed to the True Church, only missionaries from other denominations. // I do not say that those slain for being GLBT are martyrs, and neither do I claim that those who have had sex reassignment surgery did so "for the sake of the kingdom of heaven" Matthew 19:12.

Posted Sunday, April 20, 2008 11:08 PM By Florentius
This kind of stuff is exactly why we homeschool. I understand that most of you folks are in California where homeschooling has been declared "illegal" by a black robed tyrant. It's not hard to see why the judge ruled that way. Your kids must be indoctrinated into the homo-positive agenda and you MAY NOT opt out. I would "opt out" of California before I allowed my kids to be perverted in this way.

Posted Monday, April 21, 2008 8:13 AM By Peter
A child suffering for the sins of the father . . . that's just stupid.

Posted Monday, April 21, 2008 9:36 AM By Jim
Zoe Brain, please explain the sin of inhospitality you referred to.

Posted Tuesday, April 22, 2008 7:38 AM By John L. Sillasen
Peter, you're making progress. Keep up the Hail Mary prayer recommended by Fr. M.P.

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